A Series of One on One Interviews With Russian, Ukrainian Ladies. N
Yulia
They are possibly the most beautiful and desirable women on the planet, But sadly there is now a distrust with both the men that find these ladies so attractive and the ladies of the FSU. This is a great pity and we believe largely due to misunderstanding, or Failures of communication.
What do these ladies think? What is their point of view and how do they see the West, or the men that are so attracted to them? It is hoped that this series of interviews can help break down these suspicions and doubts and help create trust and understanding. This ongoing series of interviews should be of particular interest for any man that seeks a Ukrainian,or Russian Bride, or partner.
Question: Hello, Yulia. Thank you for agreeing to this interview
Answer: Hello!
Question: You are a very beautiful young lady; it is difficult to believe that you have any problem attracting the attention of men?
Answer: I have never been deprived of boy's attention in childhood,or men's attention in mature age, but it doesn't mean that I have met the right man for myself.
Question: When did you decide to register to an international dating agency?
Answer: Probably my destiny lies abroad, not in my country. Are there any other ways to find him? Only through international dating and marriage agencies. I have heard a lot successful stories of how Ukrainian women marry foreign men. So I decided to take my chance and try.
Question: Was it something you did spontaneously, or did you consider this cautiously?
Answer: It was an unexpected decision. I often do some things spontaneously, following my impulse, but considering later this decision I have never complained about it, and I think I will not complain about it in the future either!
Question: Was it an easy decision to take, seeking your soul mate Internationally?
Answer: Why not? If he will really be my second half then it doesn't matter where he lives, or from what country and culture.
Question: Many ladies in The Ukraine are very suspicious, or even frightened of seeking a man from the West. Do you also have some fears?
Answer: I think it is normal to have fears and suspicions. Who knows he can be a maniac... I overstate of course, but.... I heard only positive stories from my friends. The stories of how they found their love in another country and still do not complain that they decided to search their second half through the marriage agencies.
Question: Do you know that many western men are very mistrustful, or doubtful of finding a genuine and sincere Ukraine lady? Have you heard these stories?
Answer: I understand their mistrust and fears. There are a big number of marriage agencies, which just cheat and swindle money from the pockets of foreign men, but, definitely there are still a lot of women that wish to meet a foreigner to build a serious relationship and family life and to move to his country. More and more women become disappointed with Ukrainian men. We are not protected from bad situations and always can happen something we didn't consider, or didn't expect. So do not stop on bad thoughts, just make another step for a new life and new opportunities.
Question: Please tell me; from you point of view as a Ukrainian Lady do you think you can find a loving, caring and respectful man from a foreign country?
Answer: I don't think if the man is from another country it means that he is different. I am sure there are a lot of decent, intelligent and nice men abroad, it is why I want to find one for myself.
Question: Have you personally heard of some very frightening stories? Of terrible things happening to Ukraine ladies, on moving to a foreign country?
Answer: Yes, I have watched some programs on TV, but I keep the opinion. He who doesn't take a risk, will not find his happiness.
Question: But you are willing to try anyway?
Answer: As I mentioned before the bad stories in relationships with Ukrainian man can happen also, but we do not stop, we stand up and go forward for another adventure in dating and marriage. Relationships internationally between man and woman are the same story.
Question: You are an exceptionally beautiful lady. As a programmer, do you feel that you have a Greater possibility of success outside of the Ukraine?
Answer: Yes. I think that as a programmer I have good opportunities abroad. Now I graduate the Polytechnic University in Poltava and then I want to try myself in this field and I don't want to limit myself to only seeking my future to within Ukrainian borders. It is important to have a strong wish and the persistence to achieve your goal.
Question: For me The Ukraine is an enigma, very beautiful, many very educated and intelligent people, it seems to have so much potential and yet life seems very hard.Is it getting better? Do you feel life is improving within the Ukraine?
Answer: Yes the Ukraine develops and life becomes better and easier. We do not notice this, because the changes come very slowly.
Question: Why do you think Russian women are so popular with men from around the world?
Answer: It is well known fact that Slavic women are very beautiful, also they are good wives, we put in the first place the family's values and only after this, career development. We have a particular feature, at the same time that we are keeping and caring about our family, we develop our career. I think a Slavic woman is a dream for any man!
Question: What do you know of life outside of The Ukraine? Have you informed yourself in any way as to the way of life in any foreign countries?
Answer: I know that life isn't easy outside Ukraine also, but there is more clearity and foresight than here.
Question: Do you have any favorite destination, any country from which you hope to find your man?
Answer: I don't have any preferences. Only I want him to be a nice person.
Question: What is the first thing that you look at in a man's profile? His photo, personality type, age etc?
Answer: I look at his age first, then his photo and then his features of character.
Question: Why do you think so many ladies are interested in finding a man from another country? Please give me your opinion.
Answer: We Dream about a happy life! After several disappointments with Ukrainian men and the Ukrainian government, women are looking for happiness abroad. They say: "the better place is, where we are not". I hope that happiness will be always with me, wherever I will go.
Question: Ok, you have found your other half and he has found you, do you think it will be easy, or difficult starting your new life in a foreign country?
Answer: It is normal to meet difficulties in another country, but if my beloved man will be with me, then we will create our own World and overcome all troubles together! Just believe and go ahead! Our happiness depends only upon us.
Question: Thank you for your honesty and openness. We wish you every success and happiness and as the agency entrusted by you, we will be with you every step of the way. Well actually until you tell us you do not need us anymore.
Answer: Thank you. It is nice that you exchange opinions between Ukrainian women and western men. It will resolve, I hope some misunderstandings and hopefully will help someone!
Question: May we include your photo within this interview?
Answer: Yes, I do not mind. I want to find a foreign man so I will be glad if you place my picture here.
A continuing series of interviews aimed at helping to break down the barriers of mistrust and suspicion between the ladies of the FSU and the men of the world that find them so attractive. It is hoped these interviews can help promote trust and understanding across the linguistic, cultural and historical divide.
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The Beauty of Russian and Ukraine Ladies
For many men a younger wife-partner, or lover is something to strive for, something very attractive, or for some a dream, or fantasy, but what are the realities, implications and practicalities of such a union?
I am fortunate in having an usual perspective as the owner of a Ukraine based International Dating Agency and I am able to tell you that yes you can win the heart of a younger woman. Equally I feel it wise to also consider the implications for both parties. Whilst the ladies registered to my agency are between 18 and 50 years old, it is very noticable, particularly with the younger ones that they seek a man older than themselves.
Why? Why do these ladies seek an older partner? What is the attraction? The first issue to bear in mind is that Russian, Ukrainian ladies are unique in that they seem to mature at a remarkably young age. Quite why this should be is not clear to me, but it is an undeniable fact. Maybe it is traditional, maybe it has always been so within these countries. Of course the physical & material hardship within these countries must play a part.
Many of these ladies embark on educating themselves at what is by Western standards, a very young age and many have completed a university course and obtained a diploma by the age of 22 years of age, they take very seriously their education. Gaining the best education achievable and a valid and profesional qualification is very important for the majority of these ladies and this normally comes before thoughts of marraige.
Contrary to the understanding of many, the majority of these ladies would like to pursue a career even after marriage and would like to maintain some intellectual challenge in their life, in preference to being totally dependent upon their partner.
It is a misconception to believe that the attraction for these ladies, of a older partner is only financial, but it is fair to say it can be a consideration. It seems from my observations that so many of these ladies are too mature, advanced and even intelligent to mix with men of their age. From my observations I will list some of the qualities they seek from an older partner, some of the attractions from their perspectives.
They seek someone that can treat them as the intelligent, aware, women that they are. Many older men have through experience learnt how to romance and satisfy the needs of a beautiful woman. Someone that can support them emotionally, spiritually and materially and someone that will listen to them value their opinions and value them as a human being.
Many of these ladies are very beautiful, they know that! What they crave and need is that their inner qualities be appreciated, that they be valued as a human being. So clearly the desires and aspiration of any man seeking a younger partner can be achieved, but what are the implications involved?
If the age difference is 20 years or more they will need to take care of themselves, keep fit and keep healthy (something many men in the west are doing). Be flexible and open. One obvious distinction with a mixed age marraige is that you will each be at different stages of life, but this need not be a problem. Each couple must find the compromise, the lifestyle that they each can sustain and achieve fulfilled with. Can you adapt to that?
Many men these days feel much younger than their years and there has been a notable shift in personal health and well being within perhaps one generation. As I have already stated these Russian, Ukrainian ladies have by western standards achieved a maturity well beyond their years, so the potential and possibility of meeting halfway exists.
There is a popular belief now in the West that 50 years old is the new 30 and 60 the new 40. This in my opinion must depend upon the individual and must depend upon the lifestyle and attitudes and personality of each individual man.but what do we all need from a relationship? What will keep a relationship alive and mutualy satisfying? This can as easily be accomplished within an age gap relationship, it can be equally, if not more successful.
What is the food and drink of any successful relationship, what can sustain a relationship in a difficult moment? Mutual respect, understanding and to some extent selflessness. Why should a relationship of differing ages not work? In many ways it has a better chance of success.
One final point, the chances are if your partner is Russian, or Ukrainian she is going to look very good and attract a lot of attention from other guys and let's face it most women enjoy being admired yes? It makes them feel good.
Do not feel vulnerable, remember she choose you and so far that you give to your love that which you yourself need, respect, kindness and support she is yours. Slavic women are arguably the most loyal on the planet and so far that you do not drive her away she is yours and yours only.
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Free Dating Sites for Online Singles to Seek Dates
The best place to seek dates is from free dating sites. Many free dating sites have been booming on the market these days. Many online singles have found their partners from these free dating sites. Singles online register their dating personals ads that describe who they are and whom they are looking for in terms of love and romance. Other online singles will do the same thing by creating their personals ads at these free dating sites. In fact, all local singles and international singles are looking for their other half. Because being single is not fun at all. It is lonely to be single. You do not have anyone to share your life with. All of your boring time is meaningless if you do not have your partner to share with.
You need a companion. Looking for a companion online is so much easier than before. You do not need to drive around to flirt for someone. There is no need for a drive to a bar or club to find dates. You don’t go to the social services to seek a companion. Free dating sites are the answer for you. In front of your computer, you find your partner right here. You only type a few words, select a few criteria, and then there are million of singles showing up just like your watch a TV show. Best of all, they are all singles who are looking for love and romance just like yourself. They are available for a relationship with you. They are waiting for you. All singles at these free dating sites are eager for an online relationship.
Free dating sites have many other advantages. Members do not pay any money for using the dating service. There are new singles who join these free dating websites every hour so you make sure to check back with these sites to see new members. Dating online have been about 10 years ago and it has been increasing rapidly in last few years. Many online relationships have been created because singles have met with each other on the Internet. The world is so wonderful that we can chat online and date online too. You can see any single person in just a few minutes from the chat room. You can ask anyone to go to the chatting room to talk so you can see the face.
If you are a single man or a single woman, then please join these free dating sites to find your dream mate. There is never a payment for using the dating service online. You can select to contact with all local singles in your specific city. It is recommended to find local dates in stead of international dates. For local dates, you can meet face to face with that single person more than international dates. So, you should try for local dates at these free dating online sites. Your other half is waiting for you somewhere online. What you can do is to seek your companion today. Looking for your dream mate at these free online dating sites is easy so you need to seek your soul mate right now.
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Ghanaians Vs Online Dating
Ghanaians Vs Internet Dating
Not long ago when internet came to Ghana, it was limited to the elite. Barely a handful of people knew about it and could surf. The main use of the internet at the time for most of these Ghanaian folks was emailing and reading of news.
Now, every nook and cranny in Accra you find internet cafés and Ghanaians as young as 7years surfing. It’s only amazing that you find children from a third world country surfing the internet for information and learning new things. Some of them even have email addresses and have made a lot of friends from other countries. By 2005, the Internet Relay Chat (IRC) system was popular amongst the youths of Ghana particularly those living in the capital city, Accra.
When the chatting system became another significant aspect of the internet for them, it was mostly limited to yahoo and MSN but now, you find downloads of numerous chat software on their computers.
Ghanaians became more and more interested in the internet when online dating hit the core of their hearts. Tens of hundreds of Ghanaians have found their dream partners online and are happily married. Some date online for fun, long term relationship and marriage purposes.
Initially some Ghanaians thought that, only women who were not getting attention from men would go on the internet, advertising themselves for attention and vice versa but the mentality has changed of late.
One major reason that can be attributed to the change in mentality is the exposure Ghanaians gained from foreign dating websites where you find responsible adults posting their ads to seek romantic relationships and the like. There has also been a growing number of whites seeking to marry Ghanaians or blacks on the whole.
The Ghanaian Internet Dating started with the concept of whites or singles living abroad seeking Ghanaians and that has been the trend until now. Internal online dating is very minimal. There are a few reasons for that; there hasn’t been any special website dedicated to Ghanaians which provides purely dating services in the past but thanks to www.Ghanasinglesnet.com, which has been described as the fastest growing Ghanaian Dating website and the nation’s number one. In the first two weeks of launching the beta stage of the website and with little or no advertisement, there were more than two hundred registered members, 75% resident Ghanaians, 20% non-resident Ghanaians and 5% other singles. The statistics tells of Ghanaians’ readiness to welcome the website which provides 100% free dating services for Ghanaians.
Online dating services in Ghana have also witnessed a few setbacks which I think are worth considering. The first and foremost is scam or scamming. Cases where men or women fake up their profiles for fraud purposes are very rampant.
Another setback is the method of payment for online dating services. Mostly the foreign websites accept credit cards and the like which are not common in Ghana. This is a hindrance because even if they join a pay dating website, they would not enjoy all the features of the website, in most cases you cannot initiate a contact or send a message at all. This is why the only online dating website dedicated to Ghanaians; www.ghanasinglesnet.com was made free for all.
When it started, Ghanaians in Diaspora and foreigners had immense confidence and trust in Ghanaians seeking a foreign partner but frequent and rampant fraudulent activities have deteriorated the trust.
The situation is even worse when men disguise themselves as women and use photos of models to defraud their victims.
The team behind Ghanasinglesnet.com said that, they will do anything technologically possible to get rid of such members on their website. Steps like this can help curb the menace and rebuild the trust foreigners once had in Ghanaian singles.
However, the number of Ghanaians dating online is increasing every day in and day out. There are a lot of real Ghanaians who are seeking for love and do not disguise themselves. Internal online dating is growing as well and Ghanaians are getting to understand that; you may join a dating website for fun, friendship, long term relationships, casual dating and even marriage. Wherever you fit is a matter of choice.
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Internet Dating Scam Advice
If you are looking for love online on one of the hundreds of online dating websites, don't feel lonely, since there are probably millions of lonely guys and gals around the world looking for true love they couldn't find in their offline lives. The only thing, however, that should raise your eyebrows about online dating sites is the gigantic number of fake profiles created to dupe the people like you. YES! Online foreign dating scams are on the rise and the number of people getting tricked is also increasing at menacing speed.
Financial and emotional loss of the victim in such a scenario is inexplicable. However, you should not get carried away with what people are saying about online dating scams. The truth is, and always remain, that if you are cautious enough, ninety nine times out of hundred, you'll avoid falling into the trap. And that can be achieved only if you have sufficient knowledge about the tricks these scamsters are up to and their modus operandi. If you are one of the lonely hearts looking to find genuine love online without getting scammed, read on.
The first thing that you need to look for in a suitable partner on an online dating site is his or her profile. The user profile is the first impression of the person you're about to choose. And as they say, "First impression is often the last impression!" The same holds true in case of people uploading their profile on the online dating websites. First comes the username. The red lines are 'sex-filled' username of a girl and 'handsome-wealthy' username of a man. If any of these attributes are visible in the usernames of the girl or man, simply look for another suitable option!
Then come the photographs accompanying the profile. If the girl is posing and looking like a drop-dead-gorgeous model or movie star, or the boy has the picture of a tall-dark-handsome man seeming like a model or movie star, chances are that the profile is a fake or of non-serious user who is either after sex or your money. However, this does not mean that such profiles can never be genuine. If all other aspects seem fine to you, then may be you have chanced upon your dream girl or man!
If your date is asking for money in any form for whatever reasons, simply run away for this is the most common trap laid out by the scamsters.
While you are chatting with a user to assess your mutual compatibility, watch out for the delay time of the response from other end. If you are getting replies after a gap of over 90 seconds, chances are that the person on the other end is having multiple chats with other users and simply out there fishing for novice users.
Another common trick that you need to watch out for is the expression of love at an early stage. If the person at the other end is bombarding you with love messages after just a few email exchanges, you know what to do, don't you? Yeah! Simply stop sending the replies for the person is a fake.
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