Arab and Muslim women Issues! Part Two

Hasan A. Yahya, Professor of Sociology

There are certain points related to Arab and Muslim women. We covered three of these points in previous article, here are the rest examples:

4. Parenting In the Arab and Muslim world: In the Parenting an Arab and Muslim girl, parents give girls everything they wanted. They treat them sincerely and kindly. And when they were at the right age, the family chose a good husband for her, in what called in sociology, arranged marriages which is popular in the Arab and Muslim world. a good man, the family knows.  But some young ladies had ideas of their own. Therefore, they rebelled. They have choices: one is to refuse the proposed person. And deny fulfilling the marriage contract. Or for other reason such as going to complete their education at the university, in local or far communities. May be other countries differ from the place of origin. If they are married, they usually did not love the selected  husband who was forced on her at the beginning. In Saudi Arabia, and many other Muslim and Arab countries,  woman still should not be allowed to raise her voice. They call it “Awrah”, a “shameful act” by women to raise their voice when men are present.  A woman is considered of a “lower, inferior sex” by choice, some say, because the Islamic culture promotes certain ethics in terms of women behavior. That she should not act like a man. The man is the master, or the over hand in marriage or in the family, a young brother can control his elder sister, this is common in Arab and Muslim countries. As she’s the wife, not the slave as some people like to say. Soon after a woman  marriage she usually live in the extended family, but these days the newly married couple have their own house. They may leave to other community as we said,  and fell in love in that different environment.  No girl or boy may fall in love “deliberately.”  Even a veiled woman, but women usually conceal their love from family. It is sometimes told to close female friends.  Lover in Arab and Muslim world become in danger position, some people consider love as illegal and forbidden. But lovers may die for their love. They may sacrifice themselves for the lover safety.

5. Islam, Divorce, and Human Rights: Does Islam allow divorce, equal rights for the women and men? For any reason at all!! Well, the habits vary from one place to another. That’s why adultery for married  or spouse is punishable by death. But under certain circumstances, for example, if she or he confessed or 4 male witnesses witnessing penetration (actual sexual act-as explained in the text). Still in some close societies cultures press the fact of protecting honor of the girl. In some cases, in Egypt, Lebanon, Jordan and Kuwait, and many other communities the father or elder brother  takes charge to kill the girl. The culture usually sympathizes with honor offenders, and sometimes the court itself, give less penalty in these cases. Many women feel that this is absurd ruling, and should not be practiced. And human rights have to be preserved for both men and women.

6. Arranged marriages for some critics are absolutely silly to hear about , the argument that a woman committed adultery, because she was not  asked who she wanted as a husband In Islamic lands where the woman cannot even decide that, and consider that act as ridiculous to even mention it. They think of that as an Islamic Virus to be fought. But to eradicate such practice and to give valid assumptions, women today, in the crowded and high density cities, women do not marry by traditional arrangement. This habit is decreasing rapidly. The opposite of this image, is far from true. 

7. Stories of horror: It is all over in the news, until very recently we have no law that would protect a husband who murdered his wife and her lover when he found them in flagrant delicate situation. There is not so terribly much difference between Western and Middle Eastern cultures on this point, really. I feel sorry when I hear such stories against young couple, but they, just like us, live in a society of laws and knew what the laws were to be followed and obeyed. Penalties for crimes is simply understood, but sacrificed sometimes by emotional mis-control.

8. Religious or Cultural Practices:  No government or official law on human rights are respected or secured in love cases leads to adultery in the Arab and Muslim world. So it might be excusable for ancient people to act like as they did. Love is blind as they say, but temptations to commit adultery is punishable. Old storis of Romeo and Juliet, Antar and Abla, Qays and Laila, many centuries old stories of history these days.  In the modern world with a high tech civilization, and interaction through media and education and cultural diffusion, it is not excusable to do it according to Arabic and Islamic ethics. A Saudi man do not allow women to have a freedom, negates cultural norms. Some women’s activists call for women in Saudi Arabia the right to drive their cars alone. What do you expect from a culture respects honor and perceive women as weak persons, need always men or familial protection? In Saudi Arabia, if a woman is not allowed to drive, or to vote, or to go outside alone, or to talk with unrelated men and etc, it does not mean that they prohibit them from loving each other, no one can stand in the face of love, because love is incited by God, and God makes people love each other, but when love became illegal love, negate cultural norms, then killing  people who love each other and committed adultery is suitable punishment, culturally. There is no dating as Americans way of life. These adultery activities are prohibited in both Arab and Islamic countries. Saudi like to watch the execution of such penalties, they often come from far away just for seeing these acts. In these days, westerners do not admit such acts and describe them as just uneducated savages actions against human rights, but not modern people who call themselves Muslims  their families appreciate such acts. (1084 words)

Dr. Hasan Yahya is a professor of Sociology, and columnist at wfol.tv Malaysia and TINA International News Agency, Chicago, USA. www.hasanyahya.com

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After dinner, They walked on the shore for a while, Later that night, in her bed, John took a shower, after Jasmine who was laying on the bed, half naked,  I got in the bed beside her bringing my lips to hers, and putting my arms around her body. Her perfume was filling the room. My hands reaching her belly and my lips reaching her nipples. I touched them gently, then take one of them into my mouth, and moving my tongue with the soft nipples. She sighs, raising her nick, giving me a room to go around the neck, the nipples, the ears, and finally her mouth in a long kiss. She took off my robe. I took of her panties,  and managed to take off my underwear. My big is getting hard and stiff. Jasmine lowered her hand down to reach my pines. Took it in her hand. And lowered her head down, under the cover, and gulfed my pines with her mouth. I was delighted to see her doing it. I was close to come, so I draw my club back a little, and put it in her under belly, and higher slowly up inch by inch to reach in between her nipples. She was enjoying the moments like me. Then I lowered down to her soft small cubic,  she asked him to lick it, then moving down toward her vagina. She took my big one, squeezed it  and let it go freely and smoothly to get in.  It was a smooth landing, and I began to move. My breath getting heavier and quick. Her voice began to show deep voice. She got my lips in a long kiss, her breathing is getting stronger and stronger, her voice is getting strongly out of her mouth.   I love you. She said, Wait …Mmmm…   a little … Not yet…… Mmmmm    oooh …ya ….. now …Goo  …ooh .. Gooo now go…Nhaw..Go..! with a long kiss. He  came in that moment, she came too, they came together, Wow, I love you, she said with her arms titly around him and his around her, then they relaxed, the volcano has given up its revolution, in that moment. He  turned on his back, and she said: John,  Thank you for the great pleasure you gave me tonight. You know, I still feel hungry, don’t you!? He repeated the pleasure twice that night. How can he and she forget these moments of life?

Hasan Yahya, is an American Arab scholar, a professor of Sociology, a columnist at wfol.tv, Malaysia, and TINA International News Agency, Chicago, USA. www.hasanyahya.com

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Memories continues: One shining morning with a late spring sun. The wind was gently moving the grass, and waves of green grass looks as the sea waves he was meeting with her. They sat on the grass side by side, one of their arms  around the back of the other. He squeezed her warmly, then lay down side by side on their backs looking to the white clouds in the far high. She wished that time stopped on that moment forever. To make it memorable in the side nature, Samntha willingly said: Hold me. Now. Right here. They were in the middle of a meadow The tall grass surrounded them. And they could see nothing but the sky and clouds above. He gently made position to face her,  and took her into his arms. She was soft and warm and her hands reached out for him. They kissed with real innovatice and endless feeling. She whispered in his ear: Tell me something, Mike, do you want to sleep with me? Of course I do, he said. But can you wait. Of course I can.  Before we do it again, I want to get myself a little better. I want to make myself into a person worthy of that hobby of yours. Will you wait for me to do that? Samantha said. OK I do. Are you hard now? You mean my soles of my feet? Silly,  she said. Then he said: if you’re asking whether I have an erection, of course I do. Will you stop saying of course every time. Ok, he said, I’ll stop. She said: Is it difficult? What?  To be all hard like that. She said. Difficult, what do you mean? I mean, are you suffering? She said. Well. It depends how you look at it. He said. You want me to help you get rid of it? With your hands? Uh-huh, To tell you the truth, said Samantha, it’s been sticking into me ever since we lay down. It hurts. She said. He polled himself away, and said: Better, now? Thank you, but I wish you would do it. Sure! She said with a lovely smile. Then her soft hand unzipped my trousers and took my stiff club in her soft hand. It’s warm. She said. I like it warm. It’s all yours! He said. She started to move her fingers first then the whole hand, but I stopped her, because I was close to come. So I  unbuttoned her blouse, reaching around to undo her bra strap. He kissed her soft, red-pink rising nipples. As if they are inviting his lips for a jentle touch. When his lips began to move slowly on her nipples, she closed her eyes and slowly started moving her fingers up and down. Fromm the roots to the bossoms. Hey, you are pretty good at that. You know? He said. Be a good boy and keep mouth shut. She said. After he came, he held her in his arms and kissed her again a long kiss. She puts up her bra and blouse, and I zipped up my shop doors. Will that make it easier for you to walk? She asked. I awe it all to you. He said. You think so?  I am happy for you! Can we  continue our walk now. How can he or she forget these moments of intimate sexual experience? Suddenly she said, I am starving, aren’t you hungry? Sure, after the hard work! They laughed together and continue walking are with arm under the sky.

Hasan Yahya, is an American Arab scholar, a professor of Sociology, a columnist at wfol.tv, Malaysia, and TINA International News Agency, Chicago, USA. www.hasanyahya.com

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 I wish Debbie still alive. It was a great day, sunny in early summer, we both went to the mountains. We had our lunch there, in the camp. Before the sunset, Debbie suggested to take a picture for the sun before sunset. I agreed. When we arrived to the top of mountain. She gave me the video camera, and she stood on the edge of a big rock. She smiled and waved with her hand saying : cheese. I was concentrating on the sunset scene angel but suddenly, Debbie began to shake over the shaking rock, and fell back in the valley behind her. That was the last moment I saw her alive.

     He still remember in his imagination what happened. When she suddenly said: How about doing it, right now! She was whispering low voice. Strangely enough, He said: You are reading my thoughts. They went inside, and she closed the window, drew the curtains for more privacy and to make the room more dark.  Debbie and Mike sought each other’s bodies as if it was the most natural thing for both to do. He removed her blouse and pants, and then her underwear. I lived a strange life, Mike. But I never thought I’d have my panties removed by a young man like you. Would you rather take them off yourself? Mike asked,  No, go ahead. But don’t be too shocked with all what you see. I like every inch in your body. You’ll make me cry, she whispered in my ear. I kissed her all over, taking special care to follow her body spaces with my tongue. She had the breasts of a little girl. I caressed them and took her nipples in my teeth, then slid a finger inside her warm, moist vagina and began to move it. You missed the point, it is not the one. I can’t believe you’re telling jokes at a time like this!. Sorry, she said: I’m scared, I haven’t done this for years. I feel like a 17-years old girl: I just went to visit a guy in his room, and all of a sudden I’m naked. To tell you the truth, said Mike .I feel as I’m violating a 17-year-old girl  with his finger in her wrong spot, I moved my lips up her neck to her ear and took a nipple in my fingers. As her breathings intensified and her throat began to tremble, I parted her long slim legs and eased my self inside her.  You’re not going to get me pregnant now, are you? You’re taking care of that, right? Debbie whispered in Mike’s ear. I’d be so embarrassed if I got pregnant at my age. Don’t worry. Mike said, Just relax. When Mike was all the way in, Debbie trembled and released a sigh. Caressing her back, he moved inside her and then, without warning, he came. It was an intense, unstoppable ejaculation. He clutched at her as his semen pulsed into her warmth again and again. I’m sorry, Mike said, I couldn’t stop myself. Don’t be silly, Debbie said, giving Mike a little slap on the rump. You don’t have to worry about that.. Do you always have that on your mind when you are doing it with girls?. Yeah, pretty much> said Mike. Well, you don’t have to think about it with me. Forget it. Let yourself go as much as you like. Did it feel good?. There is no time for controlling yourself. This fine. It was great for me, too.

You know Debbie, Mike said. What is it? Debbie answered, you ought to think of a lover like me, again. You are terrific, it is such a waste. Well, I’ll think about it. Debbie said, I wonder if people take lovers and things here. Growing hard a few minutes later, I went inside her again. Debbie held her breath and twisted beneath Mike. He moved slowly and quietly with his arms around Debbie, and talked. It felt wonderful to talk that way,. If he said something funny and made her laugh, the tremors came into him, through his penis. They held each other like this for a long time. Oh, this feels marvelous! Debbie said. Moving’s not bad either. Mike said. Go ahead. Give it a try. Mike lifted her hips and went in as far as he could go, then savored the sensation of moving in a circular pattern until, having enjoyed it to the full, Mike let himself come.  All together, they joined their bodies three times that night. He will never forget these memories for  the rest of his lives. She was great young lady.

 Hasan Yahya, is an American Arab scholar, a professor of Sociology, a columnist at wfol.tv, Malaysia, and TINA International News Agency, Chicago, USA. www.hasanyahya

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This is an another part from a long novel for the author. That night did not stop raining, Mike sat on his chair and his eyes gazed in the trees under rain. The thunder and lighting shifted his imagination to remebering the intimate situations with his sweetheart. This time was far from his home. He travel to the space and time of that situation. When one day, he said to her:  How much do you think I love you?  She looked with a smile, without answer, and waited for him to answer the question. “Enough to melt all mountains  in the world snow into Ocean.” Far out, she said with a hint of satisfaction: Will you hold me tight? They got into her bed and held each other, kissing as the sound of rain filled our ears. Then we talked about everything from the formation of love history from Adam and Eve, the love movies, flowers and birds. One bird was close to the tree beside the house. I wonder what small bird do in a rainy day like this? She asked. I am ignorant in birds’ personal life, he said, They are hard workers.  I guess. If they hard workers, why then, they did not evolve to human lovers like us, or to some angels? I don’t know. He said: May be their bodies are not suited to evolve like us monkeys. I thought you know every thing. It’s a big world out there. Oh yeah, high mountains and deep oceans, green forests, she said. She put her hand inside his bathrobe and took hold of his coming. Then with a surprise joking aside, she said: Hay Mike,  this, this will not work. It’s too big. I could not let this big, hard thing gets inside me. No way. She said. You’re kidding. Mike said with a sigh. Yup, she said, giggling. Don’t worry. It will be just fine. I’m sure it will fit. You mind if I have a look on that red rabbit? She said. Feel free. Mike said. She burrowed under the covers and groped him all over down there, stretching the skin of his club, weighing his testicles in the palm of her both hands. Then she dived in and used her lips and mouth, after a while, she poked her head out and sighed. I love it. It looks as a baby panama ready to cultivate at the end of season. No flattery intended! I really love it. Thank you.  Mikky. She continued saying, you don’t want to do it with me, do you? Until you get all that business straightened out? There is no way I don’t want to do it so bad. But it just wouldn’t be right. Don’t you think? You are so damned stubborn! If I were you, I’d just do it, then think about it afterwards. You would. Only kidding, I know you, you are in love, and that’s what I really,  really love about you. How much do you love me?  Mike asked with no response, she put her lips on his nipple and began to move her hand that was wrapped around his penis. It was gentle and wonderful. I bet you’re thinking of swimming in a honey lake right now? Aren’t you? It’s more than true, sweetheart. Mike said, Ok then, I am happy to hear that. Want to touch my two young innocent babies, or go down deeper? She asked. Oh wow, I would love to, but Iwon’t. If we do all those things at once, it will  be more than I can hold. She nodded and rustled around under the covers, pulling her panties of and holding them against the top of my club. You can come on those. She said. But it will make a mess on them. You will clean up later. He said. Stop it, for God’s sake, will you? You’re gonna make me cry. She said. Relax, all what I  have to do is wash them later. So don’t hold back, take the long shot, and just let yourself come all you want. If you are worried about my panties, buy a new pair. I don’t think that they will stop in your way.  Come on then, let Niagra Falls show up and let it go. When he was through, she inspected his white semen. As if she research for description fit. Wow that’s a large  amount. It may sunk Buffalo, it’s too much , ha! Nah, it’s Oll right. Come all you want. Said that with smile, and then kissed him. The lightening and thunder brought him back. How can he forget these moments of life?

Hasan Yahya, is an American Arab scholar, a professor of Sociology, a columnist at wfol.tv, Malaysia, and TINA International News Agency, Chicago, USA. www.hasanyahya.com

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Arab and Muslim womenIssues! Part One

Hasan A. Yahya, Professor of Sociology

There are certain points related to Arab and Muslim women. In this part we cover three of them, in part two, however, five other points will be covered.  

1. Cruel Punishment: Some readers believe that there is no reason to shoot someone in the head six times, and to dagger someone’s neck till his head falls off his body. This is cruel act. It’s no reason to take someone’s life away. But can they ask the same in western societies? They usually have Gas killing, and in the old west, hanging was executed for stealing a horse.   It is a fact that a husband surely must have two-to- four wives, or was indeed going to have two-to-four wives. Unmarried couple will be flogged 100 times, male or female, Both will get the same penalty. If they chose to keep quiet, asking the forgiveness from the Lord Himself, He is All Forgiving. The authorities in this case, will not know and the punishment will not be carried out. It is all covered and secretly done. It is the duty of the authorities to carry out the punishment if they knew. Now that being said….Islamic laws has always been fair for many ages. It is the society and the interpretation of Islamic law by the government of the country that made it harsh, it may be cultural matter rather than Islamic law. One  must understand Saudis way of enforcing their Islamic laws or cultural ones, which I feel is more traditional than the real embodiment of Islamic spirit. Many people think that was right.  If a woman or a man committed adultery. She/he betrayed their family. And in case they are married they, in fact betrayed the institution of marriage. Men are responsible too: There are always two to commit adultery. Some people trying to say that women make men do things against their will and seduce them when they want? Are men bunch of sheep without their own will who do whatever women want? Are men weaklings incapable to control their lust and urges? That way of thinking reminds me of one of the Australian Muslim mullahs who said women are guilty of being raped because they are not covered from head to toe. Did he want to tell us that if men sees a woman that is not veiled they can’t control themselves? What type of men are these men? Adultery is committed in all societies, and the right of women to say no for sexual intercourse, in many societies is punishable by law. The American society is a good example, look at university research data on rape and women abuse. In terms of men are more responsible for adultery, boys probably fall in love just like a girl does. And they probably seduced girls as much as girls seduced boys and probably even more, because an Arab or non Arab girl, a Saudi or Qatari woman is raised not to show initiative and to do what men tell her to do. No one may conclude that adultery was a woman’s fault only? Unless was like the Mullah of Australia. And that a man couldn’t choose to walk away and chooses to commit adultery as much as she did. God gave us free will to do what is right. Why do people blame other people for their  decisions? Women sometimes are at least faithful to her feelings and nature. The writer might not like to praise what a man or woman does (In adultery) but he  admires a girl’s courage to be true to herself and accept the cultural punishment according to the Law. Everyone I believe, is responsible for their own actions, and women alone are not to blame for men’s emotions.

2. Accusations of Arab Societies: Some people accuse Arab women (especially in the Gulf  Arab societies) for looking to as low as their drivers for sex? And ask Why this so? Then they give an answer to their question: It’s because their men marry twice or thrice, and at some point one of the wives is always ignored. What do you expect her to do? An answer for this would be that  Qatari, Saudi, or else, women do not sleep with as low as  their drivers. This is absurd! There is no truth behind this. Claiming the opposite would be heresy and presumptions which, even if it was true does not constitute the majority nor do they alter the real truth. The writer spent a large proportion of his life in the Arab and Muslim world and he still reluctant to pin point a particular issue at its place. Claimers of these accusations of Qatari women, have to live longer and be with them and think like them to understand their issues. No one can just “cut and paste” their ideas for the public, who no little about Arab and Muslim culture. About polygamy,  defenders of Arab women, in fact,   say that many husbands [majority in each society] had only one wife. And most those who are polygamous are living in law illiteracy rate traditional communities. The writer has only one wife.

3. Islam and Adultery: The entire system in Islam should be re-done. Many people claim that, but for themselves, and later they act as others. Adultery is a larger question in Islam. Whether a woman  willed herself to fall in love or whether she was helpless. Maybe she never loved her husband. But that’s not important here. I think any state which kills for adultery has got some issues it needs to deal with in terms of human rights practiced in the western world [Europe and USA, Canada, etc.,]. Those claims that there should be no such thing as adultery. Reason for that is that no one can control the heart. No one prevent falling in love anytime with anyone. In all cases, it doesn’t matter of your marital status or seeing someone especially when someone is not happy. Life goes on, but some women do not like such life without love and respect. Some may ask: Why should they shoot an adulterer six times in the head?  Talking about the men can have more than one wife, it is allowed only if they can be fair, it is not even encouraged in Islam. Most Muslim men abuse their women. Control them in authoritative way. But this phenomenon is decreasing by time. (1101 words)

Dr. Hasan Yahya is a professor of Sociology, and columnist at wfol.tv Malaysia and TINA International News Agency, Chicago, USA. www.hasanyahya.com

 

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